Fall 2007

The first peace, which is the most important, is that which comes from within our souls when we realize our relationship, our oneness, with the universe and all its powers, and when we realize that at the centre of the universe dwells Wakan-Tanka, and that this centre is really everywhere, it is within each of us. This is the real peace, and the others are but reflections of this. The second peace is that which is made between individuals, and the third is that which is made between nations. But above all you should understand that there can never be peace between nations until there is first known that true peace which is within our souls.



Black Elk
Oglala Sioux Holy Man 1863-1950

This past year has been mostly about the first peace- within for me. I spent three months with my mom as she journeyed through her last days of life. While we have child birth coaches, I think coaching support on the exit end of life is as significant as coaching support for entering this life.

My mom was not only a mom but my friend, a great story teller, rememberer of events, the one to gather the family together, the one to speak her mind, read 3-4 books a week, and watch the news and stay informed. Mom's final three months and final days reminded me of transitions in child birth. During transition in child birth, I remember announcing to the birthing room people that I was done. I was leaving. now. not going to have a baby. Everyone smiled knowingly, knowing the babe was ready to appear.

Transitions at the end of this life can have some interesting twists and turns. I have had the opportunity to attend several people's last moments, and so felt more comfortable supporting mom's last days. I wonder if the souls experience of life is a continuity with each life as just one chapter in an unending book.

As I hear my grandma's thoughts in a change room, wondering if I need another pair of navy blue slacks, I think we are all energy, sometimes in form, sometimes not. Perhaps that is what Black Elk means when he describes the first peace in our heart and soul when we realize our oneness with the universe and all its powers.

For about 6 months after my mom's passing from this life, I felt the 24/7 open heart feeling continue and it left me exposed and vulnerable. I am taking Qi Qong classes as I want to stay open hearted and at the same time less vulnerable. I am thrilled to be back in Calgary. Our 318 days of sunshine is a welcome change from 318 days of rain in Bradford.

I am happy to reconnect with my blog, with new access to it I can keep it more current. I look forward to your experience with the transitions of life, and peace within.

Martha